Sunday, September 19, 2004
right, so i get to steven's for what should be our first uninteruppted sex in a long time, as well a christening for his new place. instead we're going out. friends of his have opened a bar which he helped with getting ready and he wants to check it out. we get there and it is totally not what i expect. sort of restaurant bar and a little more schwanky then i'm dressed for. crowded and mostly straight. i was introduced to so many people, none of them did i bother to remember the names of as i'm sure they didn't with me. the owner was an interesting piece however. tall, lanky, britsh, dressed in a suit and making no qualms about his interest in steven. fun. another guy comes over and gives steven his card. after the drink i say i'm leaving.
steven wants another drink. we head to a leather bar. porn playing has some fisting and piss. steven exclaims quite loudly 'they're pissing in his mouth'. turns out he finds this unacceptable and thinks they shouldn't be playing it in the bar. i explain that everyone has their own likes/dislikes and forcing it on others is wrong. i draw a comaparison to his family's dislike for gays. this is different though because 'it's disgusting'. bah.
back at his place and i think we're about to get down and nasty. then he announces he really wants a threesome. fine. then he suggests two of the guys i was introduced to at the bar. neither of whom payed any attention to me while i was there. i tried to explain that it's not really a threesome if one person sits out. tell him i'd rather have a threesome with some one neutral. he'd like to have sex with these guys though and since he met them after he met me, and do i want an open relationship. however it wasn't phrased exactly that way, it wasn't in the form of a question alex, and he moved on quickly.
the first time anything was brought up about relationship. i think he's left with the impression i don't want a threesome which is not the case at all. we had quick sex and i left. he expected me to stay but he also expects me not to smoke while i'm at his place. 'this will be your excuse' he says. he was supposed to call yesterday but didn't.
while we were walking between bars he stopped to do up his shoes. he ties his laces the same way i do, with two bows, often i've been made fun of for this and i've never noticed anyone else who did it. i pointed it out, he didn't make much of it. i seem to have.
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